As the 2019 holiday season was creeping upon us, I stumbled by accident into a “debate” (more like an argument) about Christmas movies that shall be part of the yearly tradition.
Ah!, social media, the Victrola of the masses.
In the past it was the tabloids, with the feral child story, or the apparition of the Virgin Mary on a muffin, or an Elvis sighting. Then it was the radio, with the endless talk shows of every subject matter that gave us Howard Stern, Morton Downy Jr, Rush Limbaugh, and many others who daily or nightly discussed politics, sex, debauchery, UFOs, and conspiracy theories. Then it was cable television, with 24 hours news coverage and editorial and political opinion shows in prime time or late night that had blurred the lines between news and political propaganda. However, none of them had the flexibility to give the viewer or consumer of information the power to participate or to provide instant feedback. It also gives the user, worldwide attention, as little Tommy or little Mary’s views can be seen, heard, or read potentially all over the world instantly. It has evolved into an everyday contest of righteousness that has made discussions pointless since everybody is right no matter how bizarre their views are.
Going back to this “debate”…
I did not know that there was a committee in charge of protecting the season by deciding what was appropriate to watch during Christmas. It seems like the same people that post stories on social media about some evil person, or organization, or government agency forbidding any Christmas decorations or the nativity scene somewhere that usually brings a plethora of people to become defensive. One person in this amusing back and forth was suggesting that “Die Hard” (1988) deserved to be included in the Christmas tradition because the movie takes place during Christmas and had all the props and theme to make it a film suitable for the time. Of course the majority of people in this now squawk box was in an uproar and adamant about the choice because “Die Hard” did not have the values and lessons other movies like “It’s a Wonderful Life” (1946) or most recently “Home Alone” (1990). Never mind that “Die Hard” is the classic good guy fight bad guys and against the odds manages to beat them and live happily ever after along with catchy phrases, old recycled Hollywood music from their “Golden Years”, loud explosions, and cool stunts. Of course the movie ending was not ever-lasting because there will always be another movie, but that is the marketing and movie cycle in Hollywood.
Honestly, I am an outsider of sorts since in the Island (The Lone Star Estate) where I was born, there was no movie tradition during Christmas and for that matter there was no Mr. Rogers, nor Green Eggs and Ham.
We opened presents, played, and visited family to get more presents.
The movie thing was merely an Americanized custom sort of imposed by the theorists of the time who thought in a “Melting Pot” society were the people of the Island must accept American culture as the mainstream culture and slowly shed theirs. It was not rice and beans, it was steak and baked potato if you wanted to be “fino” (cultured), or “como los americanos” (like the Americans).
Of course people resisted for all the wrong reasons, but that has not changed even here in the mainland where people simply resist for the sake of personal political statements rather than what is good for all. However, knowing English on the Island was a professional necessity, thus it was an obvious choice to master “el dificil” (literal meaning: the hard one; slang for what locals used to call English) even if people would look at you funny because they could or would not learn “el dificil”.
Quite frankly, over the last 10 Christmas holidays or whatever is that people celebrate (a sort of disclaimer) during this time, I had my own Christmas Movie Marathons. The choices had been based on movies or shows on sale during the year that I have purchased and saved (more like lacked the time during the year to watch them) for this time. Moreover, I do not bother myself in these social media or pointless conversations or bickering with these so called defenders of the holiday traditions, and honestly does it matter what movie do you watch?
Or for that matter, what tradition do you celebrate or not?
No it does not matter and we should understand that it is not about you but about all since we live in a society which is a collective. People who claim are inclusive should stop watering down people’s traditions with bland-neutral-vocabulary for the sake of some rightfulness. Instead we can celebrate and respect everybody by including them all– that is true inclusion. Moreover, people should not be offended if someone greets or wishes you a merry Christmas even if they do not celebrate it because the intent is the same, and it is the perfect time to educate them instead of the usual scoff and remarks that goes against the spirit of the season.
Going back to the movie, does it really matter that the movie has to have some theme related to Christmas? No, it does not, so if you want to open presents, pig out, and wear your elf or moose pajamas or that Snuggie blanket you got a few Christmas ago while watching incredible explosions, unnecessary screams, and a super-loud soundtrack…so be it and do not worry if the movie does not conform to some silly societal norm imposed long ago by some media corporation for the sake of selling crap you do not need.
In the meantime, I will be watching “Deadpool” (2016) and “Deadpool 2” (2018) during this special time because both movies were on sale during Gray Thursday ($5 each…thanks to Walmart), and I sincerely hope everybody has a great time.
Next: Fast Forward…
Note: In looking for some support for this post, I found this article from the Hoover Institution at Stanford University by Bruce Thornton in titled “Melting Pots and Salad Bowls” (2012) that talks about these theories and how they influence policy in the US.
Other articles:
Crossman, Ashley. (2020, February 11). What Is the “American Melting Pot?”. Retrieved from https://www.thoughtco.com/melting-pot-definition-3026408